Becoming the Husband God Trusted Her With

Launching March 14, 2026

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Marriage didn’t break you.
But no one ever trained you for it.

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Husbantry is a brotherhood and formation experience for husbands who are tired of surviving marriage and are ready to lead, love, and grow with intention.

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This is not therapy.
This is not a men’s Bible study.
This is not another “do better” conversation.

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This is formation.

Why Husbantry Exists

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Most men didn’t fail at marriage.

They were never taught how to be husbands.

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You learned how to work.
You learned how to provide.
You learned how to endure.

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But no one taught you how to:

• Lead with emotional and spiritual intelligence

• Love your wife without losing yourself

• Heal the wounds you carried into the marriage

• Break cycles instead of passing them down

• Show up as a husband, not just a man in a house
   

Husbantry exists to close that gap.

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What Is Husbantry?

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Husbantry is a 6-month discipleship-based mentoring community designed to help husbands grow in:

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• Identity – Who you are as a man and husband in Christ

• Intimacy – Emotional, spiritual, and relational connection

• Leadership – Covering, protecting, and guiding your home

• Healing – Addressing trauma, stress, anger, avoidance, and fear

• Accountability – Growth happens faster with brothers who see you
   

This is where pastoral wisdom meets clinical insight—with real men, real marriages, and real transformation.

Who Husbantry Is For?

Husbantry is for men who:

-Love their wives but feel disconnected in their marriage

-Are married but emotionally distant

-Want to lead better, but don’t know how

-Feel the pressure to be strong while feeling unseen

-Are tired of pretending everything is fine

-Want to become a healthier husband and father
 

You don’t need to be perfect.
You do need to be honest and willing.

What You’ll Experience

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🔹 Monthly Teaching & Formation

Biblical truth + emotional intelligence + practical application.

🔹 Guided Reflection & Journaling

Scripture reflection, prayers, challenges, and self-assessment.

🔹 Brotherhood Circles

Safe, structured spaces for accountability and growth.

🔹 Spiritual + Emotional Intelligence Training

Helping you recognize what’s happening in you before it shows up around you.

🔹 Clear Frameworks for Marriage Leadership

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Not dominance.
Not passivity.
Responsibility with humility.

What Makes Husbantry Different

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✔ Led by a Husband & licensed marriage therapist
✔ Built specifically for husbands, not generic men’s groups
✔ Clinically informed but spiritually grounded
✔ Safe, structured, and purposeful
✔ Focused on who you’re becoming, not just what you’re doing

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Husbantry doesn’t shame men.
It forms them.

The Outcome

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Men who go through Husbantry will have:

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• Greater emotional awareness
  They understand what they’re feeling, where it comes from, and how it impacts their marriage—without shutting down or exploding.
   

• Stronger communication with their wife
  Fewer arguments that go in circles. More clarity, honesty, and peace-filled conversations.
   

• Increased spiritual confidence as a husband
  Not just faith for themselves, but the ability to lead, pray, and cover their marriage with conviction and humility.
   

• Healthier responses to stress, conflict, and pressure
  Less anger, avoidance, and emotional withdrawal. More calm, presence, and intentional leadership.
   

• A clear understanding of their role as a husband
  No more guessing or passivity—men know what God has entrusted them with and how to walk it out daily.
   

• Tools to heal unresolved wounds
  Addressing childhood trauma, fear, insecurity, and past pain that silently affect intimacy and connection.
   

• Stronger accountability and brotherhood
  Men who are no longer isolated, but supported by brothers who challenge and sharpen them.
   

• A renewed sense of purpose in marriage
  Moving from survival mode to intentional growth, vision, and legacy.​​